Betrayal Transformation Coaching

Already laid the foundation of recovery and looking to begin processing deeper emotions to experience more freedom in your life again? If you are more than 6 months past discovery and you’ve already gone through a therapeutic disclosure, this is for you

CONTACT KYLENE

WHOLENESS

FREEDOM

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WHOLENESS FREEDOM TRUTH

Hello friend, 

You’ve really been through it recently. You found out your partner is a sex or porn addict, you’ve gotten connected to helpful resources, you’ve read books, listened to podcasts, gone through a therapeutic disclosure and yet…..you are struggling.

Maybe you are feeling frustrated that after all that work you still feel stuck. 

Or maybe the grief for the relationship you lost is starting to come up as the hopes and dreams you had for the future seem shattered.

Perhaps you are rebuilding a new relationship after your partner has gained sobriety but are struggling with anxiety, communication, or feeling safe in your body again….

Ugly beliefs like “I’m not good enough” “I’ll never trust again” or, “I’ll never feel seen or chosen” might be coming to the surface…

You might feel conflicting feelings of wanting to support your partner in their recovery while also feeling angry at how your life has changed because of their choices.

Or perhaps you have decided to separate or divorce but you are still navigating the long term impact of the betrayal and want to feel more grounded moving forward…

If any of this is resonating, then the RecoverU betrayal transformation coaching is for YOU.

1:1 coaching is where some of the deepest healing begins.

You might be thinking, I’ve done ALL the things, my husband is SOBER, I should feel happier than i do right now. But instead, all I feel is depressed. Or angry. Or sad.”

Once safety and stability has been thoroughly established (disclosure, sobriety, clear boundaries etc…) some of the deeper emotions begin to come up. It’s an ironic thing that when our bodies finally begin to feel safe, they then ask us to begin healing the pain that was caused.

Subconscious healing is where we move from:

“My voice is valuable and those who love me appreciate it”.

“Speaking my mind means I lose relationships”

“I am worthy, valuable, and beautiful exactly as I am”

Or from “I’ll never be good enough or pretty enough to be chosen”

So what does RecoverU Transformation coaching look like?

It’s ALL customized to YOU!

Early sessions are used to connect, get to know you, and understand where you are feeling stuck. We dig into any areas that might need some tangible practical work that might have been overlooked, avoided, or skipped over accidentally, making sure you have the most solid foundation to work from.

Then, we dig into the subconscious where we learn about any beliefs, fears or insecurities (think recurring triggers, ruminating thoughts, or negative emotions) that may be coming up for you in this healing process.

We identify them one by one and process each individually helping you feel lighter, more aligned, and more confident in yourself, your voice and your decisions. 

In short, we identify where you might be hitting a wall in your recovery, strategize the best way to tackle the wall, and work together to remove the subconscious obstacles so you can tear down, see past, and move beyond the wall!

CONTACT KYLENE

I see you. This is normal. This is your body processing a seriously scary life event and your brain wants desperately to protect you.

If we could logic our way or think our way into healing we would have done that yesterday! Let me introduce you to your subconscious - where your memories, trauma and emotions are stored. NOW your subconscious is asking you to process some of the memories so that your conscious (I AM safe) and your unconscious (i don’t FEEL safe) can agree, allowing you to feel aligned and comfortable in your home, family and body again. Through subconscious healing and coaching, we can reconcile these parts of you so that you can move forward in an aligned and empowered way.

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Frequently Asked

  • No, Kylene can, and has worked with individuals with and without faith backgrounds.

  • Yes and no. Kylene is a Christian and her faith impacts her beliefs but she only integrates faith into sessions if and when a client is comfortable with it. Some clients prefer that connection, others have experienced spiritual trauma and would prefer it not to come into sessions, and still others do not share her faith background. 

  • Our initial connection call is free. After that each session is $150. There may be package options available at a discount (example: 12 sessions for $1600)

  • Healing is individualized per person and per couple. Just like there is a difference between sobriety and recovery, there is a difference between stability (the first phase) and deep healing (long term emotional work). In our coaching we always begin with safety and stability. When staying with a partner, they play a significant role in creating this safety and stability for you. 

    Once safety is created, we can move into the deeper emotional healing work.

  • Unfortunately, I cannot accept insurance.

  • When it comes to betrayal recovery, the primary difference is the ability to diagnose or treat disease and the specific training and modalities they may use in order to support a client with emotional processing. A therapist may be able to diagnose, a coach cannot. 

WHO THIS COACHING IS FOR:

Any betrayed partner who has already been through the disclosure process supervised by professionals who still feels stuck or is ready for their own, deeper transformation and healing journey

WHO THIS IS NOT FOR:

Betrayed partners who have not already gone through the full therapeutic disclosure and/or are within the first 6 months after discovery. The WHAT’S NEXT course and coaching would be more supportive for this phase of your recovery journey.